I've seen a few of your drag shows and there is this guy you're friends with who I always see you talking to, and I really want to get to know him better but I'm really shy. I don't even want to tell you what he looks likes like, but he does wear glasses and I always see you laughing with him. How should I approach him? I know it's hard for you to make any suggestions without knowing who I am, but if you could just give me advice about how to be more confident I would appreciate it.
Dear Mr. Love-at-first-sight,
Well, you should just try talking to him. Honestly, most of the people I associate with are nice people. They don't ever blatantly turn down anyone. They are the type to leave you high and dry when they're done, but they're always nice at first. When it comes to liking anyone, it's not a matter of if they like you back, it's about the audition. Be the best version of yourself and approach them. Or if are not able to do that, become friends with one of their friends so you have the chance of running into one of them. I know it sounds easy and simply. However, I would suggest taking a shot beforehand and then going for the goal. The worst they can say is no, and if they say no, you can move on knowing that at least you tried.