I cheated on my boyfriend. It was one of those situations where we were at a party, and it was a guy I had a crush on for a long time. We drank a little then fooled around. This was almost like two months ago. I've cheated on my boyfriend before and he forgave me. I feel like if I tell him this time, he's going to leave me and he's really good to me. We also live together. Tell me what I should do.
Mr. Fucked Up.
Hello Mr. Cheater,
Tell him. I bet other people already know. The thing about cheating, is when you've been cheated on, we get this thought in our head that they won't cheat again. If they cheat once, they will cheat again. No one is perfect and with cheaters this is a pretty true fact. It sounds like you feel guilty but you do realize that if you tell him and he stays with you that does not give you a pass to keep cheating. You need to calm your “hoe down”. Honestly, you should break up with him if you can't stay faithful. We all deserve to be loved in a way that means we are cherished. The only other alternative would be to have an open relationship. If he's not down for that you're really going to need to make up your mind about what you want to do. It's unfair to everybody if you can't keep it in your pants when love is involved. Take a good hard long look in the mirror and if you can't stand to see the person reflected back at you, it's time to look at your life AND look at your choices. No one deserves to be lied to, and no one deserves to be treated less then someone else. If you can't commit, it's time to move on. If you can commit, then stay faithful because when you do, it breeds the best gift a person can have, which is true love.