I met this guy and we had an immediate connection right from the start. I don't know how invested in the relationship he is though. At times he seems like he really wants this to work out and other times he seems incredibly distant and cold. Do you think he feels bad for me? We met when I was a little intoxicated and we are not officially dating. We text all the time and we hang quite a bit, but I don't know if he feels the same way, or if he is just feeling sorry for me. I don't know what to do.
Mr. Friend of yours
Hey Mr. Friend of Mine
You don't know the answer. Many people will tell you that the key to a relationship is being able to talk with another person. Do it in person. Honestly, it's okay to have "what are we" conversations early on. It gives people the chance to tell you where they are at. It also gives people a chance to let you know if they're falling pretty hard, but want to take things slow. Some of my closest friends ended up together on a really weird occasion because of alcohol. If you are honestly falling for this person remember that falling in love is easy, that's why they call it falling. If you're not looking for something serious, just see where it goes. If you feel like you see this person being a permanent fixture in your life, then you're going to have to talk to them. You will have to get your feelings out there. You're going to have to make sure that the person you're falling for is right for you and compliments all the wonderful things about you. Relationships are about collaboration and goals. If you're not on the same page, it'd be better to find out now before the story ends abruptly and you thought it was getting to the best part.
Coco Jem Holiday
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